Just Three Hours Can Improve Your Dating And Personal Life. No Bullshit. No Endlessly Complex Techniques. Just Simple Changes That Produce Real Results.
Anyone Can Do It.
Over the last 10 years, I’ve gone from hopelessly inexperienced with women, to dating them around the world in exotic countries. I’ve gone from a two-time university drop out, having zero idea of what I wanted to do with my life, to quitting my job and pursuing my dream life. I’ve struggled with anxiety, bouts of depression, addictions, to chronic self-esteem issues, and bounced back, learning to manage them and keep taking positive steps forward.
From this I learned something crucial: When you change your life you don’t ‘change’ so much you just figure out how to solve problems you originally thought were impossible.
Until you learn to approach your problems from a place of deep empathy and understanding of your identity and your own needs, wants, strengths and limitations – you will never have the change you want.
Instead of looking for other people’s solutions, you find your solution. This is the key to improving your life in any facet. Scientists call it self-efficacy, others call it personal power. I call it responsibility.
When I coach people, I coach from this central foundation.
I don’t sit there and tell you what to do.
I help you to harness the confidence and find the answers you already have.
‘I went to Visko for coaching on developing my career, improving my relationship with my girlfriend, and achieving a healthy work/life balance. After just a few hours I had a clear idea of what changes I needed to make, and had a road-map of tasks and goals to do so. Through acting on what Visko helped me discover, my life is steadily improving.
– Jeff – 27 – New York’
The Three Reasons We Don’t Get The Life We Want
The reason what you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked is:
Unless the solution comes from you, it’s never going to work.
You are your best teacher.
This is why it’s the goals that fit within your life and your identity are the ones that actually work.
There are three reasons why we don’t set ourselves goals like this:
1) You value an idea of yourself that’s toxic
Your goals are based on ideas of yourself that are motivated by insecurities and emotional wounds.
The hot girl who’ll impress all your friends. The fame that’ll make everyone realize you’re cool. The success that’ll prove to everyone how smart and superior you are.
This is something that we all feel. It’s normal. But it also leads us in the wrong direction.
When we pursue something that we don’t actually value, we at best end up achieving something that doesn’t fulfill us. Leaving us constantly chasing more, and constantly being unfulfilled.
2) You don’t actually know who you are
When we don’t know what’s actually important to us, we’re left with a hole we can never fill, and as above, try to fill in toxic ways. But ironically, the answer is never something we ‘get’. It’s actually something we already have.
Our values. Our identity. Our sense of self.
When you spend all of your time pursuing things outside of yourself, you never pay attention to the things inside of you, the things that really matter. And it is exactly these things that drive us towards what we actually want and what actually fulfills us.
3) You’re looking for a life you think you need, instead of the one you do
How often do people chase someone who’s wrong for them? How often do we aspire to a goal just to prove something to our low self-esteem? How often do we make crucial decisions in our lives for reasons that have almost nothing to do with what actually matters to us?
What matters to us and our lives are never mutually exclusive.
What you highly value as a person, and what you will not tolerate aren’t just features of your life – they’re intricately woven into the outcomes of your life. When your life is aligned with them, it works. When it doesn’t, it trudges along, feels aimless, and leaves you deeply unfulfilled.
This is why the solution to all your problems is something only you can solve:
Your entire life is born out of your own values, judgments, choices, and actions. Nobody else’s.
When you realize this, you will find a solution that makes sense for you and your values, instead of copying one that made sense for someone else’s.
‘Over three hours of one on one coaching the vague ideas I had about what I wanted to achieve and who I wanted to be were honed down to a number of key suggestions and personal goals. Visko helped me realise things I didn’t know I wanted, or the reasons behind why I wanted something.
The personalised plan of action, presented shortly after the end of my time with Visko was very detailed. It summarised our session accurately and gave me an actionable timeline containing personal targets to hit to set me on my way. Now it’s up to me to make what I want a reality.
Elliot – 25 – London’
WHAT I COACH
I believe the best coach is the one who asks the right questions. The best coach is the one who helps you move in the direction you already know you need to move in.
My general areas of expertise are in Dating, Relationships, and Personal Development. Here are some of the goals I’ve helped my clients achieve:
- Building a dating life from scratch
- Learning how to flirt and become sexually confident
- Learning how to approach women
- Becoming more attractive
- Leaving the friend zone forever
- Making a relationship more exciting
- Getting out of a relationship rut
- Learning how to find the ‘right one’ for you
- Setting boundaries in a relationship
- Reconnecting with your partner
- Building a social life from scratch
- Finding your passion/life purpose
- Developing new networking skills and goals to help with your business
- Building rock solid habits
- Overcoming toxic habits
I’ve also helped people lose their virginity, get their first girlfriend, quit their job and chase their dream, take on fear of failure, confront social anxiety and much more.
‘After moving to a new city, away from all my friends I felt daunted at the prospect of regaining a social life. After just two hours talking with Visko I feel now that my mammoth task has been made achievable, and the pressure I was putting on myself has changed.
This is clearly a very well put together programme, professionally finished, and Visko’s flair for the anecdotal helped take the pressure off. If you’re feeling hesitant – don’t; I felt heard, listened to, and at the end of it received strong pragmatic goals which have already made changes in my life.
Greg – 28 – London’
HOW I COACH
Coaching is done over Skype or phone when possible and costs $180 for 3 hours ($60 per hour). Fees are paid upfront via Paypal.
15 MINUTE FREE CALL
We first have a preliminary chat for 15 minutes where we talk over whatever it is you want to work on and to see if I’m the coach you want to work with.
Why do I do this?
I want you to be 100% confident that I can help you to achieve your goals and improve your life. If you’re not, then I don’t want your money and will offer helpful suggestions as to who I think can.
At the very least, I want the 15-minute free call to be an improvement to your life regardless of whether we progress or not.
If we do choose to progress then we will book in a time for the next call. In the overwhelming amount of cases, the entire 3 hours is needed. However, in some cases, we will require less time and can adjust the cost accordingly.
FIRST CALL – 2 HOURS
In the first call, we will take 2 hours to really dig into the meat and bones of whatever it is you’re looking to improve.
I will send you a questionnaire to complete beforehand that helps explore what it is you’re looking to improve.
This is the largest part of the call and by far the most intensive. By the end of it, we will both be exhausted, which means we’ve both put in the work!
SECOND CALL – 1 HOUR
In the following 1 hour call, we will work together to set clear, achievable goals that are aligned with who you are and the life that is right for you. These will be goals that are deeply tied to what we have learned, and what is pragmatic and achievable.
Because when you have a strong foundation for your goals, achieving them takes care of itself.
‘Before coming to Visko I wasn’t sure about working with a man, given dating men was what I was finding difficult! I wasn’t sure he’d “get it.”
HOW WRONG I WAS. Working with Visko was hands down the best thing I could have done!
He quickly helped me to identify what my key issues were and showed me how easy it was to change them, providing simple and achievable steps that I could start making that day.
These sessions are worth every penny!
Lily – 30 – Cardiff’
BOOK YOUR FREE 15 MINUTE CONSULTATION NOW
If this sounds like something you’re interested in, drop me an email using to box below and throw in a few sentences describing what you’d like to work on.
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