OF ALL THE SOCIAL SKILLS that you can learn, there are few that match the importance or simplicity of the first impression. It is rare among people to find thoughts that go beyond or even … [Read more...]
Here are a selection of my best articles. These range across all topics.
OF COURSE, LOVE IS NOT REAL’, those were my initial thoughts when taking the question as to the reality of love. Love is amorphous and difficult to grasp. At once cultural and biological, … [Read more...]
I suck at building habits. Maybe it’s my hyperactive brain, maybe it’s laziness, maybe it just being human; my repeated attempts to build myself into an autonomous being of success were scattershot … [Read more...]
You aren’t as smart as people say. You aren’t as smart as your tests say. You aren’t as smart as you say, your parents say, your future or your past says. You aren’t as smart as you think … [Read more...]
Recently, a reader emailed me with a story: His 4-year relationship had just ended. She’d left him. She’d moved to a new city, and the long distance turned into emotional distance. Unanswered … [Read more...]