Failure sucks, but the way we talk about it sucks even more. We’re told we fail because we didn’t try, because we gave up, because we didn’t believe. When it comes to thinking about failure, … [Read more...]
Here's every article I've ever written. Some are single entries, others are part of a longer series.
Game; some men have it, some men don’t. It’s in the way they talk, walk, act and believe. But what is it? Is a complex skill or an inherent ability? Denied to some but handed to others? And if it can … [Read more...]
The Ex is leaving me. We’ve been together for years. It wasn’t me, it was the Ex. That’s what the Ex said. It wasn’t me. ‘We’re too young,’ the Ex said. And of course, that was it – too … [Read more...]
Note: this article applies to pre-performance anxiety; severe general anxiety requires more complex, professional treatment You cannot avoid anxiety. It is our internal gauge of pressure, stress … [Read more...]
This is Part 2. You can find Part 1 here... Obsession, Exposure and Other Tales When I was younger, I was deeply concerned with the idea of self-improvement. Motivated by … [Read more...]